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[updated] My provider had done some upgrades. For some reason, my comment file was updated to god knows what and no longer worked…so i just uploaded my backup file. Remember my friends, backups are GOOD! Backup your sites now! Anyway, comments are working again! Oh….and Karl also had emailed me on my other account telling me that the comments didn’t work so he gets kudos, too!

Big props go to Melinda for emailing me to tell me that my comments are down!

I’m so thankful, I’m gonna post her picture!

Here I was, thinking that no one cares about my pretty picture! Well, maybe no one really cared anyway.

I’m exhausted from work today (it’s been a busy couple of days…) but I won’t be able to rest until I figure out what’s going on with my comments!

Busy!

Too busy today (and yesterday) to make a post with any substance to it…

So I shall leave you with a photo that I took on the airplane on the way to Aruba…

That looks so tempting right now!

Bronze!!!

Yesterday, team USA, which consisted of Rusty, JP Kepka, Alex Izykowski and Apolo Anton Ohno skated to a bronze medal in the relay!!!

Dave and I were so excited while we were watching the races. Apolo won the 500m bronze medal earlier in the night. I almost cried as he skated right to “Coach”, Li Yano and she was hugging him so tight to her. I was touched after he hugged the rest of the coaching team and shouted out, “Where’s Shani?”, knowing that his best friend Shani Davis was watching in the stands.

The relay was so exciting! Although we were a bit annoyed that so much attention was focused on Ohno during the first part of the race, (at one point, Dave was like, “Why aren’t they showing Rusty at all? Apolo isn’t even the one currently doing the laps!”) later on in the race, the rest of the guys on team USA got some camera time. Not to bag on Apolo, he really did well these games. I just think that the rest of the guys who had people watching at home should get their 5 seconds in the spotlight.

Anyway, there was a lot of passing going on, and near the end of the race, Italy had opened a pretty big gap on us. Rusty was second to the last to skate, and made a lot of ground, so much that by the time he made the exchange with Apolo to anchor, Rusty was right behind the Italians and Apolo passed the Italians right after the push.

…and when they won that bronze medal, as a team, it was so awesome! I was so happy for these guys who have all worked so hard to make it to the Olympics. I was so proud to see them hugging and doing their victory laps. As a matter of fact, it was great to see all the sportsmanship taking place on the ice after the relay. I know that NBC would like nothing better than to have some horrible controversy to focus on to end the games, but this relay ended with smiles from everyone, and hugs from all around.

So congrats to Apolo, Izy, JP, and especially Rusty, who’s overcome so much to get here!

….coming up tomorrow - Closing Ceremony Thoughts and Olympic Best and Worst Pt. 2!

Glory

I dropped off Dave at the airport early this morning. He’s spending the week in Vail, CO for a “conference”, that is, getting his notes from his friends and snowboarding all week. I’m so jealous - we were supposed to do this trip together, before we found out about the pregnancy. But oh well, life changes when you have kids, right?

I haven’t been able to go back to sleep so I’ve been channel surfing since 6am. I caught “Glory” on, which I just now realized is one of my favorite movies. “Glory” is based on the the true story of the Civil War’s first all black regiment, and all the prejudices that they faced from both sides of the war. It features stunning performances by Matthew Broderick, Denzel Washington (who won an Academy Award for this movie), Morgan Freeman, Andre Braugher and Cary Elwes. One of the best war films ever made!

Every time I see this movie I end up crying like a little baby throughout the movie. It’s so powerful and so emotional! The last ten minutes of the movie just make me hold my breath and send chills up my spine. If you ever have a chance to see this movie, see it, it will definitely be worth your time.

*sniff*

When I Think About You I Touch Myself

The baby has been really moving a lot lately, to the point where I’ve been trying to tell him to calm down, since it gets hard for me to concentrate on work when he’s doing his in utero gymnastic routines. He’s moved from just plain kicking to this weird alien like shifting around in my belly. Friends had told me about the sensation, but I didn’t realize how weird it was until it actually happened.

But everytime I feel a movement, it’s almost become second nature for me to immediately feel my belly. I’ve actually been caught rubbing my belly without even knowing it. I dunno, for some reason I find my hands on my belly. It feels good to rub it, like I’m my own person Buddha.

The sensation of feeling this weird, alien creature move within me is incredible, especially when he’s doing his body rolls. I doubt they’re really body rolls, but I have no other way of describing it. It totally freaks Dave out, too, since he’s expecting the feeble little kicks from last month. His eyes always widen when he feels whatever body part it is that’s moving at the time. That’s the other thing. I have no idea what body parts I’m feeling. I’d feel a lump, then think it could be his head…but it could be his back…or maybe even his ass. I wish I had some x-ray glasses to see what position he’s in. Sometimes, it gets to be so much that I’m half expecting the scene from “Alien” where the alien spawn pops out of the man’s belly.

For your entertainment…

Go Rusty Go!

Just a shout out to my bestest friend ever, Rusty, who’s skating in the short track men’s relay tomorrow. Ok, he’s not my bestest friend ever, but I like to lie to him and tell him that.

I’m so proud of him, making his third Olympics when most people would have a hard time even going there once. (Although watch out for me in 2010 - curling is my way in, baby!!!) He’s had a tougher journey this time around, being an old fossil on the short track team (26 is an old fossil on that team, to me, anyway) as well as suffering an injury a couple years ago. In a race Rusty got hit in the face by another skater’s blade, which sliced his nose and could have done some major damage to his eye if he wasn’t wearing protective lenses. He had to have some reconstructive surgery done on his nose to put it back together. Some skaters would have been hesitant to get back on the ice after an injury like that, and to tell the truth, right after the accident he wasn’t the same. I was afraid he wouldn’t have the competitive fire that he had before.

But time heals, and although he didn’t qualify for all the distances this year, he still made the team. He did AWESOME in the 1000m race, making the finals after some pretty close races. He was skating like the Rusty I remember watching. It was great to see him skating the final, and in a sport where the spotlight is pretty much on Apolo, for a moment the light shined on Rusty, too. We were all cheering for him that night, and although he finished fourth, we know he tried his best…

Tomorrow he’s skating the men’s relay. It’s gonna be a crazy race and I hope he stays out of traffic and stays safe. We’ll be watching, once again, and cheering him on - hopefully they’ll show him on TV this time! Nothing would be better than for Rusty and the rest of the guys, Apolo, Izy and JP (and Anthony, too) to get a medal on the last day of the Olympics, and maybe for Rusty’s last race ( I dunno if he’s retiring this year or not)

So if you’re reading this, I know you would have given me a hard time for making a post about Shani and not one about you. Of course, if you created a lot of drama at the Olympics, maybe you’d get some press time, too. But at least you had Katie Couric touch you a lot during your Today show segment!

Go Rusty!

I Am a Responsible Adult

Why?

Because yesterday I sent out all the “thank you” cards for my first shower.

Doing that gives me a big sense of accomplishment, since I’ve NEVER sent out all my thank you cards before….I sent out a good handful of thank you cards for those that gave us wedding presents…about 70%, much less for those that gave me bridal shower gifts…

Oh, by the way…if you gave me a present for my wedding or bridal shower 3 years ago, and didn’t get a “thank you” card, THANKS!!! I really appreciated your gift, whatever it was…

Anyway, I sat myself down on Sunday and Monday and started writing my little heart out. I had to pause every now and then because my hand would cramp up and my ass would start hurting, but I was pretty productive and got all of them done…

Well, I just lied a little. I didn’t send out ALL the cards…there were a couple presents that came in the mail since the shower that I haven’t sent out the cards for yet….but I swear they’ll get done by the end of the week! (which means I just have tomorrow to do them!)

Yano’s a big girl now!

For Your Consideration - Cheek!

DHL (the delivery service) is holding a contest called the U.S. Olympic Spirit Awards, where people can vote on the US athletes they feel best show the Olympic spirit. You can vote for a team, a male athlete and a female athlete. Also, by registering to vote, you get a chance to be an Olympian for a day - that is, head out to the Colorado Springs Olympic Training center, where the short track team, volleyball team and other Olympic teams train.

This is a pretty cool contest, but unfortunately, much like Dancing with the Stars, it’s a mere popularity contest…whoever is the most visible athletes are getting the most votes. Here are the standings so far…

Male U.S. Olympian
1. Shaun White, snowboard
2. Chad Hedrick, speedskating
3. Joey Cheek, speedskating
4. Apolo Anton Ohno, speedskating
5. Ted Ligety, alpine skiing
6. Evan Lysacek, figure skating
7. Bode Miller, alpine skiing
8. Johnny Weir, figure skating

Female U.S. Olympian
1. Lindsey Kildow, alpine skiing
2. Sasha Cohen, figure skating
3. Hannah Teter, snowboard
4. Emily Hughes, figure skating
5. Christine Witty, speedskating
6. Kelly Clark, snowboard
7. Gretchen Bleiler, snowboard
8. Rena Inoue, figure skating

U.S. Olympic Team
1. Snowboarding
2. Figure Skating
3. Speedskating
4. Ice Hockey - Female
5. Alpine Skiing
6. Curling
7. Ice Hockey - Male
8. Bobsled

As much as I love Shaun White, I don’t feel he should be at the top of this list. I definitely don’t think that Chad should be #2 - yes, he’s won us some medals, but showing Olympic spirit? No, I wouldn’t have voted him on my list. (FYI - I wouldn’t have voted for Shani, either) As for the women, I’m glad to see Lindsey Kildow at the top of the list. Though I voted for Kelly Clark, since she went all out in her last run and really broke the barrier between women and men in terms of how awesome her run was, til the end. Snowboarding is a good choice for the top of the team list, having gotten the most medals, a great team of good sports (let’s forget that Lindsey Jacobellis snafu).

But let me bend your ear for a bit, my friends, and let you know who I endorse…

There is one person throughout this whole Olympics who, to me, has exemplified what being an Olympian is - competing his hardest, being a good sport, being unselfish, and playing nice when a storm of controversy surrounded those around him…and that is Joey Cheek.

No one heard of Joey Cheek before these games. He didn’t have a cool NBC add with flames and cool rock music. He was hardly talked about by any sportscasters and was off the radar of many people who were making race predictions.

Even now, after winning a gold and silver medal and donating all of his winnings ($40,000) to an organization that brings sports to children of underdeveloped countries, his light is still hidden under the Shani/Chad feud. But his contribution to Right to Play has caused other sponsors to match his donation, currently around $300,000 in matched donations.

During all of this, he stays humble”

He seems genuinely embarrassed by the attention his donation has attracted. “I always felt like if I did something big, I wanted to give something back,” Cheek said. “The best way is by helping someone else. It is empowering to think of somebody other than yourself. I can take the time to gush about how wonderful I feel or I can use it for something productive. I skate around ice in tights. It’s not that big a deal.”

So here’s the link to vote, you can vote for whoever you want to, you don’t have to vote for Joey…but I ask you to really think about who you’re voting for, who really has the Olympic spirit…

Vote for the US Olympic Spirit Award (you have to register to vote, but you can vote every day)

Four Things

I’ve been tagged by Irene….

FOUR THINGS

Four Jobs I’ve Had:
- Software Consultant
- Opening envelopes for those places where you can order special edition plates
- Sports store at O’Hare airport
- Bartender for Hire

Four Movies I Could Watch Over and Over:
- Office Space
- Contact
- Grease 2
- The Princess Bride

Four Places I’ve Lived:
- Chicago
- Urbana, IL
- Long Beach, CA
- Addison, IL

Four TV Shows I Watch:
- LOST
- My Name is Earl
- Grey’s Anatomy
- Law and Order : SVU

Four Places I’ve Vacationed:
- Puerto Rico
- Maui
- Aruba
- Cozumel

Four Foods I Love:
- Sushi
- Tiramisu
- Chocolate
- Croquetas de Pollo at Cafe Iberico

Four Sites I Visit Daily
- Gmail
- The Superficial (yes, I’m a celebrity gossip whore)
- flickr
- My trivia site

Four Albums I Can’t Live Without:
- World Clique - Dee-Lite
- Janet. - Janet Jackson
- Stunt - Barenaked Ladies
- Any of my super mix tapes

Four Places I’d Rather Be:
- At home, lounging on the couch, with my laptop on my lap, NOT working
- Maui
- Snowboarding
- In Torino watching all the Olympic events

Four Random Items in My Purse:
- Camera
- Lip gloss (several shades, I love lip gloss)
- Cell phone. Which is funny, because I never answer it.
- Freshly charged batteries - I’ve learned my lesson and always keep them handy

Tag You’re IT!!! (I’ll choose some random readers…)
- Lara at MAWWS
- Shannon
- Nino
- Master Foley

As the Rink Turns

Wow, yesterday was another interesting day for long track speedskating at the Olympics…

Beware, this is a pretty biased post…

As I said in an earlier post, I was getting really tired of the Chad Hedrick & media created rivalry between Chad and Shani. Chad is the kind of athlete that the media loves - he talks a lot, he says whatever is on his mind, he wants everyone to love him, and he adores the spotlight on him. Shani just wants to go out there and do his best - he’s been burned by the media before so he’s wary of them, and he knows that reports have been painting him as the bad guy - but the only way to win this fight is on the ice.

It seems like everyone is talking about it. As much as I’ve said I’m sick of it, I just wanted to get a couple things off my chest and just let it go after today (of course, after replying to any comments that I disagree with).

It all comes down to this: Should Shani have skated the team pursuit? Before I said I was on the fence about it. However, I’ve seen interviews and read up on it a little more and agree with Shani. Chad says that any good teammate would be on the team to help the US win a gold, it’s the patriotic thing to do, rather than think about your own race and yourself. He felt betrayed that Shani didn’t speak to him about not skating, and has said that being on the relay would be a sure win for the US. Come on now, is ANYTHING a sure win in the Olympics? We know the answer to that.

Chad had some pretty good points….if speedskating was a team sport.

Something that the media has frequently failed to mention are these points:

- Shani has NEVER skated the team pursuit before

- the US brought people to skate the relay. Shani was part of the 2002 short track team as an alternate, but never got to skate. He swore after that he would never take anyone’s chance away to skate at the Olympics

- Shani’s best race was the 1000m, two days after the team pursuit. He wanted to concentrate on his best race - that’s what he really came to the Olympics for. Sure, Chad was in the 1000m, also, but it’s Chad’s weakest race, he wasn’t expected to medal. As Shani has said, “Would it have been the same if the 5,000 (Chad’s best distance) was right after the team pursuit? We’ll never know.”

- If Shani lost the 1000m, he would have gotten a lot of flack for it, since he has consistently won it in competitions. As Dan Jansen said, either way - skating the TP and maybe not winning the 1000m or not skating the TP and winning the 1000m, he’d get criticized. It’s a lose lose situation.

- The press has hinted that Chad was really angry at Shani for not skating the team pursuit because that meant that Chad’s quest for 5 golds was jeopardized. Hey, what was Shani skating for? Just a silver? Because if Chad DID get 5 golds, that’s all Shani could have hoped for in his races. Speedskating isn’t a team sport - they ALL want the gold.

However, I think Shani’s post interview after the 1000m was weird. He was cold, distant, guarded and barely spoke more than 5 words to answer a question. This was not the Shani I know! Then the reporter asked, “Are you angry?” (what the hell kind of leading question is that?) he said no, then turned away and smiled. Bizarre! Of course, it was hardly mentioned on NBC that Chad had congratulated silver medalist Joey Cheek, but did not say anything to Shani, which probably made Shani upset.

It was more refreshing to see him interviewed for our local news, smiling, ecstatic, friendly and eager to talk. This is the Shani I’m used to! He had a much better interview with NBC after the medal ceremony, where he talked about hoping to show kids that they could stick with something and make their dreams come true.

As for the feelings after the 1000m, here’s a couple quotes from the guys after the 1000m:

Like all good catfights, he neither congratulated Davis for beating him in the race (Hedrick finished sixth) nor had much praise for him. Are you happy for Shani, he was asked.

“I’m happy for Joey,” he said. “Joey has been skating real well.”

Davis laughed at it.

“At least he said I skated fast. That was nice.”

Davis isn’t even surprised. He said he has “a lot of respect for Chad” and said it was natural for them to butt heads.

Then came the 1500m race, the distance that both these guys have held world records in. It was the showdown of the century, well, for speedskating anyway. NBC hyped up the tension between Shani and Chad, so much that outspoken Chad didn’t even want to talk about it anymore. Who would win the showdown? Who would get bragging rights?

Enrico Fabris has ‘em!

Yes, the home team gets a winner when drama-free Enrico Fabris had an amazing last lap that Chad and Shani had to beat, which they didn’t. The two golden boys had to settle for lower spots on the podium - Shani with the Silver and Chad with the bronze. Chad was visibly upset after his race, taking a lap with his hands on his lap to cool down. After his race, Shani smiled, shrugged in an “Oh well!” sort of way, and congratulated Fabris after Chad did. What you didn’t see on TV (if you were in the US) was Chad going to take off his skates an d sulk while Shani stayed on the ice and waved to fans and talk to other skaters.

The home crowd was going crazy! As much as I wanted the US to win, it was great to see an Italian win…they are such a great crowd.


Of course, Chad and Shani didn’t touch each other, although I’ve seen news reports that they congratulated each other.

I was relieved that the drama was over. The post interviews were ok, Shani’s was much better than his post gold one. It seemed like the speedskating world would be OK. Also, Shani and Chad wouldn’t have to touch each other since they were on opposite sides of the podium. Chad had a nice

But then NBC televised footage from the post-race press conference. All I could say was WOW. Even Dave shushed me when we were watching it.

“I’ll be honest with you,” said Davis, the first black athlete in Winter Olympic history to win an individual gold medal. “Sure, Chad and I are fighting for the same thing. But it would have been kind of nice after I won the 1,000 if he would have been a good teammate and shook my hand, just like I shook his hand — or hugged him — after he won the 5,000.”

After he said that, all the reporters turned to Chad for his rebuttal. Shani got up and walked out. Chad was left there, drinking a glass of water, smiling, much like Bush did after he was told about 9/11, trying to formulate what to say. The pause was so uncomfortable that people actually started laughing. Then he came back with this:

“We’re all part of Team USA,” Hedrick said. “We had a great opportunity to win the team pursuit. I felt betrayed in a way. Not only did he not participate, he wouldn’t even discuss it with me as a leader of the team. I thought we passed up a medal.”

Waa waa waa…stop bringing it up! Shani won a 1000m gold for team USA. Shani didn’t do every interview possible to make another teammate look bad. Shani is there to win, but he’s happy with his results when he tries his best, he doesn’t say things like, “I didn’t come here to finish third,” Chad said. “I’m not happy with what I did. This is not what I sacrificed my whole life to do.”

Chad always talks about being part of the team, being a good teammate. Shani had a good point - a good teammate would have shook hands after losing…a good teammate would have been happy for a fellow teammate to win. For as much as Chad cries about Shani being a bad teammate, Chad was not only a bad teammate, but also a bad sport after the 1000m. His argument would have been much stronger if he just sucked it up and congratulated Shani rather than going to the “I didn’t congratulate him because I felt betrayed” deal.

I wish this whole thing would go away. Shani’s a great guy that has a lot of love for speedskating, he doesn’t deserve to be involved with this big mess…his experience here should have been something more positive, something kids could really look up to. But now, in a way, it’s a little bit tainted with all the drama. Truthfully, I don’t know much about Chad. Never met him, don’t know much about his backstory, but he came across to me before the Olympics as charming, confident, and a little cocky.

Gladly, they don’t have to race anymore.

So the scoreboard reads: Shani - gold and silver, Chad - gold and bronze.

Hee hee.

I just wanted to get that off my chest.

Feel free to debate.

Articles used:
Fabris tops Americans for 1500m gold
Speedskating smackdown